"Deep Lounge Place is my moving meditation in support of individuals, parents, educators, and education entrepreneurs. It is where I tap into the six senses and my forever love of Deep House and Lounge music, in service of people who are raising children, educating families, and building safer spaces for learning and community-building to happen." M.


YOUR DEEP LOUNGE GUIDE:


Maleka "M" is an equity-centered, spark-igniting community convener, organizer, and natural healer dedicated to investigating the indoctrination of practices that show up throughout parenting and learning approaches.



SBE Vibe Check Collective


The Vibe Check Collective (VCC) is composed of members of Speak and Be Easy (SBE) who represent a culturally diverse and multi-generational group of voices that reflect the core values of SBE and the communities it serves and aspires to serve. Each VCC member was nominated directly by the Spark Igniter of SBE for their wisdom, insight, and thought partnership in order to provide guidance, support, and opportunities for growth and learning within and beyond SBE.


The individual and collective wisdom of VCC members is the heartbeat of SBE. It is essential for its sustainability and for ensuring that SBE remains true to its values from the inside out, leveraging past successes.

Kelly Limes-Taylor


Living a *speak and be easy* life represents a way to live one's full authenticity, and I believe full authenticity is the highest attainment available to those of us on this side of dirt.

Alexa, she/her




Jonie Marie, she/her

Slowing down has become vital for me to hear the pace and texture of what it means to presence life as an interbeing experience. Honoring the steaming compost heap as scared has been an infinite learning space along this journey.


Practice: Jonie Broecker

www.joniebroecker.com

OUR WISDOM KEEPERS


The DLP Wisdom Keepers represent a culturally diverse collective of voices that reflect SBE's core values and the communities it currently serves and desires to serve.

For the prosperity of DLP and its offerings, each Wisdom Keeper enriches us with a treasure trove of wisdom, insight, and thought partnership generously shared over the past four years. Their contributions guide, support, and foster opportunities for growth and learning within and beyond DLP.

The individual and collective wisdom of DLP Wisdom Keepers is the lifeblood of DLP, a vital element for its sustainability. It ensures that SBE not only talks the talk but also walks it from the inside out, leveraging past successes. 

Zee, they/them


Living a "speak and be easy" life involves embracing a sense of ease and simplicity, fostering honesty, and seeking inner peace, all while considering the importance of community connections.


Practice: Daizee the Doula

tinyurl.com/daizeethedoula

Juwariya A.

To fully embody myself and to fully honor my physical and spiritual body and desires without external interference.


Practice: Moju.Design Wellness Collection

instagram.com/mojuwellnesscollection/

Jonie Marie, she/her

Slowing down has become vital for me to hear the pace and texture of what it means to presence life as an interbeing experience. Honoring the steaming compost heap as scared has been an infinite learning space along this journey.


Practice: Jonie Broecker

www.joniebroecker.com

Kristina Cockle, they/she

To me, living a speak and be easy life means orienting our lives to embrace radical hope for a better world. We question how we have always done things, interrogate how our actions might be reinforcing systems of oppression, and work together to create spaces of collective liberation.

Melissa, She/they

Getting in tune to self and spirit and boldly walking in your truth and values with much grace and gratitude for all the beings and energies we are blessed to be in community with.

PARENTS.

 For parents to...

• gain deeper and healthier relationships with themselves and their young people. 

• live and be the change they desire to see in themselves, their community and beyond. 

• tap and lean into their innate capabilities that nurture, guide, and support their young people rooted in belonging, identity, trust, and equity. 


For parents...

• to strengthen their abilities to engage in and feel through noticing moments as an invitation to disrupt the fixed perceptions we carry around learning and living 

• and caregivers who are currently or considering learning approaches beyond compulsory schooling for their children 

• who desire to shift away from coercive parenting methods towards partnership-based parenting and liberation-centered learning approaches. 


For parents who...

• recognize that compulsory schooling does not align with their young person’s needs but struggle with disrupting the cycle 

• are looking for a community intentionally designed for and by parents.






EDUCATORS.

For educators,

meaning new and experienced liberatory and youth-centered facilitators, dedicated spark-igniting volunteers and space-makers. Also meaning teachers in the standard system who are questioning the norms and eager to contribute differently.


For educators to...

• create learning environments that support a wide range of learning approaches 

• explore how their perceptions of how learning happens and is valued shows up through learning engagement.





For educators...

• to strengthen their abilities to engage in and feel through noticing moments as an invitation to disrupt the fixed perceptions we carry around how learning happens and is valued. 

• exploring learning engagement that centers and meets young people where they are based on their individual needs, interests and curiosities.



LEARNING CENTERS.

Existing learning spaces (in-person, hybrid, and virtual) that align with Deep Lounge Place core invitations. 


For burgeoning and established learning spaces (minimum of 2 years in operation) committed to the building and sustaining youth-centric programming rooted in liberatory approaches and practices. 





Supporting these spaces to intentionally establish learning environments that provide a viable and sustainable option under educational choice. 



OUR MONTHLY PATH



WEEK ONE: WATCH IT.

DLP members get access to a conversation between M. and her selected thought-partner, along with a feedback form to share insights about that conversation.

WEEK TWO: INTERROGATE IT.

Matinee watchers are invited to show up for the work by engaging the special prompts and exercises meant to spark elements of their growth edges and insights.

WEEK THREE: NOURISH IT.

Matinee watchers are invited to a support space that pays particular attention to the feelings of grief, loss, not-enoughness, and stuckness.

WEEK FOUR: DISCUSS IT TOGETHER.

Members who have viewed the current Matinee can meet and connect with other members to share what sparked for them, how/if they engaged the prompts and exercises, and any emergent ideas and unformed thoughts that surface.

Who this is for...


All are welcome; however, DLP’s focus on people (and groups) of the global majority (PGM) and LGBTQIA+ community members makes it an invaluable resource and community connector. This program stands in support of elevating the voices, experiences, and perspectives of underrepresented communities to be seen, honored, recognized, and supported.


To that end, Deep Lounge Place welcomes individuals and groups who represent thought leaders, space makers, spark-igniters, visionaries, and healers rooted in liberation and who connect and resonate with the following:

• Active Disruptors – from early to experienced journey stages 

• Active Deschoolers (early to experienced)

• Appreciates multi-sensory, non-linear, and organic approaches to learning that go beyond window dressing

• Carry a strong appreciation for music, especially HOUSE, RnB, Soul, and Bossanova

• Understand and know that the journey is where the magic happens

• Appreciates and connects with nature as a source of understanding, growth, and awareness - spirituality

• Individuals who can commit to meeting regularly from May through November. 

Cost

To ensure that SBE’s Deep Lounge Place is as accessible as possible to the communities SBE desires to serve; there are a series of access points to support a wide range of financial capabilities.


Free: Sample

Provides samples of SBE offerings through Substack for members to gain access to the following:

• M’s Musings

• For The Vibes

• Spotify Playlist for SBE and For the Vibes

• Tender morsels from Matinees with invitations to join Deep Lounge Place

• Testimonials from fellow travelers on the journey

• Exclusive invitation to SBE Fellowship Gathering

• Invitation to explore SBE additional offerings: private chats, private group and organization sessions, speaker/presenter, strategy and design sessions, SBE Cookbook

• Partnership Opportunities and Offerings


$20/month: Lite Bites

This dish includes all of the above plus:

• Access to SBE Roving Library

• Invites to Mourning Circles


$575: Full Course

The DLP full course includes all of the above plus:

• Access to Matinees and LIVE Happy Hours

• One 30-minute virtual or phone 1:1 session with M.

Payment Plan Options (choose one):

a) 3 payments of $192 over three months

b) 7 monthly payments of $82 throughout program length (May through November)

Choose a Pricing Option

Common Inquiries


• How long is this program?

DLP runs from May through November of 2024 and includes access to the Roving Library until December 2024.

• Do I have to view every Matinee?

Matinees are pre-recorded 1:1 sessions between a Guest Thought Partner and M, which are released during the first week of every month. Each Matinee session is accompanied by supporting prompts, exercises, and invitations to deepen your experience. DLP will hold a Live Happy Hour at the end of each month to connect and share what the Matinee has sparked for you. If you prefer to work on the Matinee and supporting prompts and exercises on your own, you can sign up for the Lite Bites at $20 per month. The choice is entirely up to you.

• Can I join this program if I'm not a parent or professional educator?

Absolutely! If the DLP Core Invitations and Who is this for? sections noted above resonate with you; come on through!

• Are the Live Happy Hours recorded?

No. The DLP honors and acknowledges the layers that can show up through interrogating our indoctrinations and holds Live Happy Hours as a sacred space so "the revolution will not be televised."

• What if I can't attend the Happy Hours? Should I still join this program?

Live Happy Hours are essential to the DLP community, as they help to create and foster a sense of belonging and support for members. These events provide a forum for real-time interaction and discussion, and we strongly encourage everyone to attend. Please note that Live Happy Hours are not recorded, making attendance all the more important. 

Of course, we understand that life can be unpredictable, so if you are unable to attend a Live Happy Hour, that is perfectly understandable. We hope to see you at the next one! 

• Do you offer refunds if I join and don't like the program?

If you discover that the DLP is not the right fit for you, we see it as a beautiful opportunity for self-discovery. It's an invitation for you to explore other pathways better suited to your flow, and we'll be here to support you, sans a refund.

• I love this format! Can I collaborate with M. to curate exclusive Matinees and Happy Hours for my group or organization?

Sure can! If you are interested in bringing the DLP to your group or organization, please complete this Invitation to Collaborate form.

• I love this offering! Though I can't participate, is there a way for me to contribute a few dollars to support keeping DLP alive and well now and in the future?

Absolutely! Simply send M. an email at [email protected] with "DLP Donor" in the subject line. She will follow up with details. Donations at all levels are welcomed. Thank you.

• I'm curious about the Mourning Circles. Can you say more about them?

Sure. Akilah, one of our DLP co-conspirators, is an emerging bereavement educator and does grief tending in ways like this (The ILID Course). She will host similar, low-cost gatherings just for us here in DLP. One of our Wisdom Keepers, Zee, will also offer space for grief and loss, coming soon!